Everybodyiseagertohappiness,feelingsofwell-beingofeveryone.Happinessissometimesabstractandsometimesveryspecific.Well-beingsometimesdistant,sometimescloseathand.Dedicationisthewell-being,giventhewell-being,accesstothewell-beingandenjoytheblessingsofhappiness......ofthewordsisawell-being,anunderstandingoftheexpressionisthewell-beingofthesoul......isthefeelingofhappiness,happinessisalifeexperience......afriend,youfeelwell-beingofit
Afriend,youhappiness
Whenthemotherofthelatewinterofasingleneedleorpieceofthreadsonsanddaughtersfortheirownsewingclothes,willalsobewovenintothewarmth.Thenextday,wewearit,howhappy!Fromruraltourbanschoolchildren,mayhavesuchanexperience:themotherbeforethechildleft,afewsteamedsteamedrubbingwillcontinuouslyrubbingin.motherlylove.Eatingsteamedsteamed,asiflovefishestasted.
Cleanerscleaningpeopletotheearthcleaner,weareveryhappy.Teacherswillbelife-longdedicationtoourknowledge,weareveryhappy.Superiorlivingconditions,weareveryhappy.Weliveinthispieceofthesun,butalsothewell-being.
Thepursuitofhappinessdonotdeliberately,whenyouinadvertently,happinesswillcometoyouquietly.However,thewell-beingbutalsoapairoflongwings,andyouwillpassanytime,anywhere.Therefore,wemustgraspthewell-being,evenifitremainedasecondormore!
WhatishappinessDifferentpeoplehavedifferentideas.Somepeoplearerich;theythinktheyarehappy.Otherpeoplehavemanyfriends,sotheyfeelhappy.Stillothersarehappybecausetheirlivesaremeaningful.Happinessattractseveryone.Forchildren,happinessoftensuggestseatingsomethinggoodorplayingwithtoys.Forastampcollector,stampsbringmoredelightthanmeals.Andforascientist,adiscoveryoraninventionratherthananythingelsegiveshimgreatestsatisfaction.
Therewasonceabeggarwhowasalwayshappy.Thekingsawhimandwonderedwhyhewassohappybecausehewassopoor.However,thekingcouldhavewhateverhewanted;yethehimselfwasnothappyatall.Thuswecanseeone’shappinessdoesn’tdependonwhetherheisrichorpoor.Happinessisastateofmind.Aslongasonethinkshe’scontentandsatisfied,heishappy.
Aseverythingexistonlybecauseitsopposite,happinessexistsonlywhenpainexists.Justasapersonwhodoesnotknowfailureneverknowssuccess,aperson,whohasnotexperiencedsufferingorsadnessneverknowswhathappinessmeans.
Happinessalwayspromisesahopebywhichpeoplegoonliving.Whentheycometothepointoflosinghopebecausetheyhavesufferedagreatdeal,itisoftenthetimewhenhappinesscomesthatwillgivethemthecourageanddesiretolive.
Cheerupandbehappy.Happinessisnotfarfromyou.It’sjustaroundyou.Trytograspitandenjoyit.
Howtobehappy
Happinessisthemmostpreciousthinginlife.Withoutit,amanwillfeelthathisillfatehastakenchargeof(支配)himandtheworldisutterly(完全地)darkanddreadful(可怕的).Onthataccount,hisbodygrowsweaker,hisworkslackens(变松弛),andaboveall,hethinkshewouldratherdiethanlive.”howtobehappy,then”youmayask.Now,thisistheverypuzzlethatwearegoingtosolve.First,dothingsinaccordancewithyourconscience(良心);Thatis,dotoothers,asyouwouldhaveotherdotoyou.Secondly,paymoreattentiontoyourhealth,whichistherootofsuccess,forasoundconstitution(体质)enablesyoutosucceed.Thirdly,worryandsorrowareofnouseatall!Incaseyoumeetwithsomehardsituation,youmusttrytoovercomeitwithoutanyhesitation(犹豫.Willpower(意志力)isessential(不可缺的)tohappiness.Andthelast,butnottheleast,adopt(采取)anoptimisticattitudetowardlife,fortheworldisstillinmakingandyoucanhaveashareinit.Inthisway,truehappinesscanbeobtained.
Thereissomethingintheworld.Ithasnoshape,nocolorandnoweight.Itcan’tbeseenortouched.Buteveryonewantsitverymuch.Peopletrytogetitinmanyways.Somepeoplethinkmoneymeansit,sotheytrytomakemoremoney;somepeoplebelievethatknowledgecanbringittothem,sotheystudyveryhard;someotherpeoplefindonlygoodhealthcanmakethemselvesgetit,sotheytakepartinallkindsofsportsandgames.Now,youmayaskwhatonearththemysteriousthingis.That’shappiness.
Furthermore,lovemakesgreatdifferencetohappiness.Ifyouhaveloveinyourheart,youwillhavehappinessinyourlife.Loveconsistsoftwoparts,oneistoloveothers,andtheotheristobelovedbyothers.LeiFengsetagoodexampleforallofus.Heservedthepeoplewholeheartedlyuntilthelastminuteofhislife.Heregardedservingthepeopleasthehappiestthing.Therearenumbersofsimilarinspirationalstoriestobefound.Inaddition,beinglovedbyotherscanalsoleadyoutohappiness.Couragefromyourparentswhenfrustrated,carefromyourloverwhenill,helpfromyourfriendswhenintrouble…allofthesewillmakeyouthehappiestpersonintheworld.
Thelastbutnotleastistoacthappily.Puttingonahappyfaceandthinkinginterestingthingsarehelpfultotriggerhappyfeelings.
ButI’msadtoseesomepeoplegettingtheirhappinessinbadways.Theyspeakloudlyincinemasandmeetingrooms;theydestroytreestoenjoythemselvesandtheylaughatothers’shortcomings.Perhapstheyfeelhappyatthattime,buttheywillnevergettruehappinessbecausetheyhavedestroyedothers’happiness.
FromIhavediscussedabove,wemaysafelydrawtheconclusionthathappinessmeanskindness,loveandunselfishness.Aboveall,onlybringinghappinesstoothermscanmakeyourselfhappy.