Inthebeginning,loveisalwayssweet.Astimeisslippingaway,boredom,beusedto,abandonment,loneliness,despairandcoldsmilewillcomegradually.Oncebeingeagertostaywithsomeoneforever,later,wewouldfelicitateourselvesonleavinghim/her.Duringthosetransientdays,wethoughtwelovedhim/herdeeply.Then,wegottoknowitisnotlovebutaliebywhichwecomfortourselves.
开始的开始总是甜蜜的。后来就有了厌倦、习惯、背弃、寂寞、绝望和冷笑。曾经渴望与一个人长相厮守，后来，多么庆幸自己离开了？曾几何时，在一段短暂的时光里，我们以为自己深深的爱着的一个人。后来，我们才知道，那不是爱，那只是对自己说谎。
Itisturnedoutthatthosewhoyouthoughtyoucouldnotlose,actually,itisnotveryhardtoforgetthem.Youdrainedupyourtears,therewillbeanotheronepleasingyou.Youhadplungedyourselfintoadepression,finally,youfoundthosewhodonotloveyouarenotworthyofyoursadness.Recallingthoseunhappythings,isitacomedyWhenyourwronglovestopsitssteps,abrand-newworldwillbeshowntoyou.Allsadnesswillbecomehistory.
你以为不可失去的人，原来并非不可失去。你流干了眼泪，自有另一个人逗你欢笑。你伤心欲绝，然后发现不爱你的人，根本不值得你为之伤心。今天回首，何尝不是一个喜剧？情尽时，自有另一番新境界，所有的悲哀也不过是历史。
Forlove,imaginationisoftenmorebeautifulthanreality.Thesamewithmeeting,alsowithseparation.Wethoughtwewouldhaveadeeplovetowardsomebody.Incomingdayswillletyouknowinfactitjustisveryshallow,veryshallow.Themostdeepandheaviestlovemustgrowupwithdays.
爱情总是想象比现实美丽，相逢如是，告别亦如是。我们以为爱得很深、很深，来日岁月，会让你知道，它不过很浅、很浅。最深最重的爱，必须和时日一起成长。
Withlove,twostrangerscansuddenlybefamiliarwitheachotherthattheysleeponthesamebed.However,thistwosimilarpeople,
Whilebreakingup,say,“Ithinkyouaremoreandmorestrangetome”Itislovethathastwostrangersbecomeacquaintances,thenturningthetwoacquaintancesintostrangersagain.Loveissuchkindofgamewhichmakestwostrangersbecomelovers,thenreturnthemintotheoriginalsituation.
因为爱情的缘故，两个陌生人可以突然熟络到睡在同一张床上。然而，相同的两个人，在分手时却说，我觉得你越来越陌生。爱情将两个人由陌生变成熟悉，又由熟悉变成陌生。爱情正是一个将一对陌生人变成情侣，又将一对情侣变成陌生人的游戏。
Ibelieve,lovecanchangeyou,whichistheadvantageofyouthaswellasitssorrow.WhathasmenchangedperhapscomesfromGod’sloveorthemercyofBudda,buttheyareneverchangedbywomen.Theprodigalarethemostunsuitablepersonforgettingmarried,meanwhile,themostsuitableoneformarriageaswell.Itisnotwomenwhochangetheprodigal,shejustappearintheverytimewhentheprodigalwanttobechanged.
相信爱情可以令一个人改变，是年轻的好处，也是年轻的悲哀。浪子永远是浪子。令男人改变的，也许是上帝的爱或者佛祖的慈悲，但绝对不会是女人。最不宜结婚的是浪子，最适宜结婚的也是浪子。往往不是女人改变一个浪子，而是女人在浪子想改变的时候刚好出现。