Peoplealwaysconfuseaboutthemeaningofhappiness,theydon’tknowhowtodefineit.Somepeoplethinkthatwhenonehasthesuccessfulcareerordoessomethingthatmakescontributiontothesocietyisthehappiness.Itiscommonthatgreatactsareadmiredbythepublicandpeopleareeasytofeelthehappiness.Whileinmyopinion,happinessisveryeasytoachieve.WhenIstaywithmyfamily,wehavethenicetalkandIfeelveryhappy.WhenIeatthedeliciousfoodthatiscookedbymymother,Ifeelmovedandhappy.Happinessisaroundeverywhere,wecanfeelitifwetreatitright.
人们总是对幸福的意义感到困惑，他们不知道如何去定义。一些人认为当一个人拥有成功的事业或者对社会有所贡献的时候，才称得上幸福。自然地，伟大的行为被大众所信服，人们也很容易感到幸福。然而在我看来，幸福是很容易得到的。当我和家人呆在一起时，我们聊得很愉快，我感到幸福。当我吃到妈妈做的美味食物时，我很感动，也很开心。幸福无处不在，如果我们正确对待，就能感受得到。
OnceIreadthestorythatthelittleeaglesneededtopracticeflyinginthecliffbeforetheycouldfly.Thesuccessfulonescouldflyandbecamethestrongbirdswhilethefailedoneswouldcrashandthendied.Themothereaglesarebrutaltothebabies,butthisisthepriceofgrowingup.Thelittleeagleswhofailtoflywouldnotlivelonginthenaturalcompetition.Itmakesmethinkofthechildren,someparentsspoilthekidsandtheydon’trealizeitwilldestroytheirchildren.Thechildrenneedtolearnthelessons,sothattheycanbethetoughperson.Theroadofbeingmatureneedstheprice.
Myfatherisbusyallthetime,healwaysgoesoutveryearlyandthengoeshomeafterverylate.Hedoesn’thavemuchtimetoaccompanyme,mymothertellsmethatwhathedoesisforthefamily,soIamconsiderateandgetusedtohisabsence.Butrecently,Ifoundmyfatherchanged.Hegotmoretimetostaywithme,hegothomeearlierandthentaughtmewithmyhomework.Iwassosurprisedandhappy,thiswasthelifeIwantedallthetime.Iaskedmyfatherwhathappened,hesaidhewantedtospendmoretimewithme,herealizeditwasthemostimportantthing.
Recently,theliveshowisverypopular,especiallytheshowaboutthefatherhowtogetalongwiththeirchildren.Thefathersarecelebritiesandtheyhavethebrilliantcareer.IamimpressedbythefatherswhoareOlympicchampions,theirkidshavethestrongdesiretowin.Whentheirfathersloseinthegame,thekidswillbeverysadandcan’taccepttheresult.Noonecanwinallthetime,wehavetolearntoacceptthebadresult.ThekidsthinktheirfathersareNO.1,sotheytreattheirfathersastheabsolutelywinners.Sometimesthestrongdesireisnotgoodforthekidstogrowup,theyshouldhavethepositiveattitudetotheresult.
最近，真人秀很流行，特别是有关父亲如何与他们孩子相处的节目。那些父亲都是名人，他们都有着杰出的事业。对于那些身为奥运冠军的父亲，我留下了很深的印象，他们的孩子有着强烈的愿望要去赢。当父亲们输掉比赛时，孩子们会很伤心，无法接受结果。没有人可以一直赢，我们要学会接受不好的结果。孩子认为他们的父亲是第一名，因此他们把父亲当作理所当然的赢家。有时候赢的强烈意愿并不利于孩子的成长，他们应该乐观对待结果。
Lastnight,Ireadthenewsaboutaprofessorwhowrotethepaper20yearsago.Hedidsomeresearchaboutaskingpeoplewhethertheywerehappyandhecameupwiththeconclusionthathappinessbelongedtotwokindsofpeople,theyaretheonewholivedinpeaceandtheotherwaswholivedwithgreatachievement.But20yearslater,hedecidedtorevisitthesepeopleandhefoundthattheconclusionabouthappinesshemadebeforewaswrong.Mostpeoplewithgreatachievementfeltnothappybecausetheymetsetbacks.Theprofessorcameupwiththenewconclusionthattherealhappinessliesinthepeacefulsoul.Thisisthecodeofhappiness.
WhenIammakingmistakes,myparentswillneverbeangrywithme.Iamsothankfultothemfortheyaresotolerantwithme.Ilearnmanythingsfrommyparents,theyshowmehowtobeatolerantperson.TheywillnotblamemeforthesmallmistakethatImake,instead,theywilleducatemeinthegentleway.Unlikesomeparentswhoarestricttotheirkids,theywillbeveryangryandsaidthehurtingwords,makingthechildrenfeelsad.Beingtoleranttootherpeople’smistakesisthebestwaytosolvetheproblem.Peoplewillappreciatethekindactandmakethingsgoesontheeasyway.
OntheNewYear’sEve,afterfinishingthedinner,formostChinesepeople,theywillsitathome,watchingtheSpringFestivalGalawiththeirfamilies.Theshowhasbeenatraditionforus,inourparents’generation,SpringFestivalGalaispopular,eventhoughtodaymanynewformsofamusementareinvented,whichmakesthegalalesspopular,yetthetraditionalshowstillwinspeople’sattention.Ithasbecomepartofpeople’slife,mostpeoplewillopentheirTVandwatchitinthebigday.Iwillwatchtheshow,maybemostofthepartsdonotattractmyattention,butitisthehappytimeformetostaywithmyfamily.Ienjoythemoment.
WhenIwassmall,Iwastaughtthatweshouldhelpothers,thoughitwasnotourduty,weshouldtakenohesitationtodoit.Today,theeconomydevelops,butpeoplebecomeselfish,theycaresomuchabouttheirbenefit,whenitcomestohelpothers,somewillaskifthereisareward.Itseemsthattheyneedsometemptationtotakethekindact.Inmyopinion,weshouldhelpotherswithoutaskingareward,whenwehelpothers,wewillhavethesenseofsatisfaction,what’smore,onceweareinthetrouble,peoplewillhelpus,itisthebestreturn.Wearenotalone,helpingeachothermakestheworldbecomebeautiful.
当我还小的时候，我被教育我们应该帮助别人，虽然那不是我们的责任，但是我们应该毫不犹豫去做。今天，经济发展了，但是人们变得自私，他们很在意自己的利益，当谈到帮助别人的时候，一些人会问有没有回报。似乎他们需要一些诱惑才会去做这样善意的举动。在你我看来，我们应该帮助别人，不求回报，当我们帮助了别人，会有满足感，而且，一旦我们有困难，人们也会帮助我们，这是最好的回报。我们不是独自一人，互相帮助让这个世界变得美好。
Weliveinaworldthatsurroundedbypeople,weneedtocommunicatewithothers,forthepurposeofshareouremotionsandkeepsurvive.Whilesomepeoplehavesocialphobia,theyareafraidoftalkingtoothers,theycan’tmakethesocialcommunication.Thisissuchabigillness,buttheycanovercomeit.First,theyneedtotakethepositiveattitudetolife,havingmorecommunicationwithotherscanenrichestheirknowledge,theycansharehappinessandsorrowwithfriends,whentheyareintrouble,friendswillhelpthem.Second,theyshouldopentheirhearts,don’tbeafraidoftalkingtoothers,oncethemouthsareopened,theworldwillbelitup.
BeforeIwasfiveyearsold,myparentsgavemewhatIwanted,butasIbecamebigger,theychangedtheirattitudetowardsme.MyparentsnolongersatisfymewithallIwant.WhenIwanttobuyanewdress,mymotherwon’tbuyformedirectly,sheasksmetodosomethingtoexchangeforit.Suchasdoingthehouseworkormakingprogressinthestudy.What’smore,whenImeetthedifficulties,myparentswon’tsolvethemformeimmediately,instead,theywillleavemetothinkaboutthemandhelpmetosolvethem.Whatmyparentsdotomeisright,itismyroadtogrowup.
在我五岁以前，我的父母给予我想要的东西，但是随着我长大，他们对待我的态度发生了改变。我的父母不再满足我想要的一切。当我想要买一条新裙子，妈妈不会立刻买给我，她会要求我去做一些事情，以此来交换。比如做家务或者学习上有所进步。而且，当我遇到困难了，我的父母不会立刻帮我解决，相反地，他们让我自己思考问题，然后帮助我解决。父母对我做的是正确的，这是我的成长之路。