Therearenotwoidenticalpeopleexistintheworld,butmostsuccessfulpeoplearesimilarinmanyways.Goodcharacteristhefoundationofsuccess.Mostofsuccessfulpeoplearemodest,diligentandcreativeetc.Inmyopinion,beingconfident,honest,andperseverearethethreeimportantkeystothedoorofsuccess.
Thereisanoldsayingthatconfidentisthefirststeptosucceed.Supposethatapersonisnotconfident,howhegetstrustfromothers.Asingersinginginthestagewithoutnervousmeansheisconfident.Publicspeakersexpresstheiropinionstootherswithouttensionwhichalsomeansheisconfident.Confidenceofferspeoplecouragetoovercomedifficulties,what’smore,ifpeoplebelievethemselves,theymaymeetmoreopportunitiesthattheyhadneverthoughtabout.
Thesecondkeyhelpspeoplesucceedishonesty.Thereisnodenyingthatmostoffriendshipsarebasedonhonestyandmostofbusinessesarebasedonfriendship.Honestpeopleareeasytogetothers’respectandpeopleoftenprefertocooperatewiththehonestonesratherthanliars.It’sobviousthatnoonecouldtolerateafriendalwaystelllies.Chinahaveafamousstorywhichisaboutashepherdboywhowantstoplayfarmersandlietothemawolfiscoming.Afterheliestothemtwice,awolfisreallyappears,whenheasksthemforhelp,noonebelievehimanymore.
BesidewhatItalkaboutabove,Iconsiderthatperseveranceisanessentialpersonalitytopeoplewhowanttosucceed.Everyonewillmeetproblems,butnoteveryonecouldinsist.Infact,perseveranceisanotherattitudewhichbelongstooptimistic.Afamoussayingisthatdifficultyislikeaspringwhichweakensinfaceofastrong-willedbutstrengthensinfaceofafaint-hearted.Whenpeoplerunintoproblems,aslongastheypersevere,theywillbeclosedtosuccess.
Toconclusion,everyonehashispersonality.Kindheartedpeoplemakeothersfeelwarm,andhumorousguysbringhappinesstopeople;enthusiasticonescouldeasybeongoodtermswithothers.Sometimespeople’spersonalitydecidewhotheyare,evenwhotheywanttobe.
有句老话说,自信是成功的第一步。如果一个人不自信,他如何得到他人的信任。一个歌手在舞台上唱歌没有感到紧张意味着他有信心。在公共演讲上表达自己的观点而不紧张,也意味着他是自信的。自信给人们提供了克服困难的勇气,更重要的是,如果人们相信自己,他们可能会遇到更多他们从来没想过的机会,。
第二个有助于成功的因素是诚实。无法否认大多数的友谊是建立于诚实的基础上,而大多数的事业是基于友谊上的。诚实的人很容易得到别人的尊重,人们往往喜欢跟那些老实的人而不是谎话连篇的人合作。很显然,没有人能容忍一个总是说谎的朋友。中国有一个著名的关于一个牧童的故事,说的是他想戏弄农民就向他们撒谎说谎狼来了。他撒了两次谎之后,狼真的出现了,但当他求助的时候,再没有人相信他了。
总之,每个人都有自己的性格。善良的人让人感到温暖,幽默的人给人带来开心;热情的人可以很容易和别人好好的相处。有时候人的性格决定了他们是什么样的人,甚至是他们想成为什么样的人。
Iwouldrathersufferhardshipsthanfail.Inotherwords,toachievesuccessismyonlydesire.Weallknowthattherearemanyfactorsofsuccess.Nowletmewritedownthemostimportantonesinthefollowing.
Diligence—Foolishasapersonis,hecansucceedinhisworkifheworkshard.Thatdoesnotadmitofanydoubt.
Perseverance—Whenyoufail,don’tloseheart.Keeponworkinguntilyouaccomplishyouraim.
Honesty—Ifyoutellliesordoesnotkeepyourwords,noonewillrelyonyou.Iwouldratherbescoldedthancheat(others).
我宁愿受苦难不愿失败。换句话说,获致成功是我唯一的愿望。我们大家知道成功要素很多。现在让我们把它们最重要的写在下面。
勤勉――一个人虽然不大聪明,但是他地能做成他的工作,如果他苦干的话。那是不容置疑的。
毅力――当你失败的时候,不要灰心。要继续工作,直到你达到目的为止。
诚实――如果你说谎或不守信,没有人会信赖你。我宁愿挨骂不愿欺骗人。