Communicatingwithothersisabigproblemindailylife.Somepeopleareeasytotalktooters,butsomeothersnot.Whenyouwanttotalktosomeone,firstlyyoushouldfindsometopicstotalkabout,butthetopicsshouldnotincludedtheprivacy,suchasage,marriageorwage.Secondly,payattentiontoyourattitudethatdonotmakeothersfeeluncomfortable.Comfortisthebasicofcommunication.Thirdly,payattentiontoyourbodylanguage.Bodylanguagecantransmitmuchinformation,suchasyourattitude,mannersorsomethingyoudonotrealize.Finally,focusonyourpacing.Don'ttalktoofastortooslow.
Recently,Iwassoshockedbythenewsthatayoungboydiedofviolenceafterhisparentssenthimtoaprivateschool.Thesloganoftheprivateschoolwastohelpparentscorrectkids'badbehaviors.Alotofparentschoosetosendtheirkidshereaftertheygivingupeducatingtheirkids.Thepublicblamedtheparentsfornoteducatingtheirchildrenintherightway.Thereisnodoubtthattherootofkids'problemscomefromfamily.Manyparentsalwaysforcethechildrentodowhattheywantandignorethekids'feelings,sotheywillgoagainsttheelder'sthoughts.Finally,theparentslosetemper.Theeldershouldshowrespecttothekids.Communicationcansolvetheproblem.Whenthechildrenreceiveloveandunderstandingfromparents,theywillbenicepersons.
Inthelastcentury,thegovernmentcarriedoutthepolicyoffamilyplanningtocontroltheincreasingpopulation.Somostfamilieshaveonlyonechild,butrecently,anewpolicyhasbeenannouncedandpeoplecanhavethesecondchild.Itsoundslikethegoodnewsforthefamily,astheonlychildcanhaveasiblingtocompany.Whileforsomeparents,theyseemtobenotthequalifiedparents.Aboycomplainedthathisparents’secondchildwasthesmartphone,becausetheyloweddowntheirheadsallthetime.Manyparentsdidnotrealizethelackofcommunicationwiththeirchildren.Iftheywantanotherchild,they’dbetterlearntocommunicatetheirkidsfirst.
Recently,ithasbeenreportedthataboyarguedwithhisfatherandthenhelefthomeandthepolicedfoundhim,takinghimhomeafterhalfamonth.Itsoundssoridiculousfortheboytoleavehomeforsuchalongtime,butthinkingfurther,thelackofcommunicationbetweenthefatherandthesonmakesthisjoke.Therealwayssomepeoplewonderwhyweneedtogethighereducation,becausewemaynotearnmoneyasmuchastheworkers.Inmyopinion,thepurposeofeducationisnotforthemoney,butforthebetterpersonwewillbecome.Ifthefatherknowshowtocommunicatewithhissonandhissonisconsiderate,thenthingswouldn’tbecomesobad.Weneedreceiveeducationandbecomethewiseperson,sowecancommunicatebetterandcreateaharmoniousenvironment.
Ashumanbeings,wecommunicatethroughoutourlivesforvariousporpoises.Butjustbecausewe'vebeencommunicatingforalongtimedoesnotmeanthatwearealwayssuccessfulorthatwecan’timproveourcommunicationskills.HowcanweconveysuccessfulcommunicationWell,thereareseveralusefultipsmayhelpyoutoimproveyourcommunicationskills.
Firstofall,listenandrespondthoughtfullytoothers.Youshouldspendmoretimelisteningtoothersinsteadofboastingyourself.Someofusareveryegocentric,whichmeansself-focused.Ifyouspendtoomuchtimetalkingaboutyourownstuff,thepeoplearoundyoumaythinkyouareatediousandannoyingperson.So,thebestwaytodoistoconsiderourfriends’thoughtsandfeelings.Trytobeagoodlistener,whenyouexpressyourself,thinksaboutitcarefullybeforeyoureallysayit.
Second,appropriatelyadaptmessagestoothers.Itisnotenoughtobesensitiveandaccuratelyunderstandothers;whenyoursendoutyourmessage,youpickupthebestwaysandrespondtootherstoachieveyourcommunicationgoals.Butitdoesnotmeantosaysomethingthatthelistenerwantstohear.Thatwouldbeunethical.Appropriatelyadaptmessagestoothersmeanscarefullyeditingandshapingyourresponsessothatyourmessagescanbeunderstoodbyothersandyoucanachieveyourgoals.
Lastbutnotleast,trytointerpretnonverbalmessages.Asweallknow,unspokenmessagescanexpresspowerfulideasoremotionswithgreaterimpactthanmerewords.Youshouldtrytoobserveothersfacialexpressionsormovementsandgivecorrectrespondstoothers.Youcanseetheemotionsorattitudefromone’sgesturestops.Besensitiveandappropriateinterpretingothers.
Mostpeoplelearncommunicationrulesfromexperience,byobservingandinteractingwithothers.Youcandothattoo,ifyouhaveenoughpatientanddeterminations.
英语交流英语作文（2）
Recently,IhavebeenreadingabooknamedCommunicationArts.Inthisbook,theauthorDoctorLiintroducesmanymethodstocommunicatewithotherssuccessfullyandtellsreaderswhyeveryoneshouldbeapoliteperson.Myfavoritesentenceinthisbookis“Everyonehaspotential,andeveryonecandetermineyourownfuturebydevelopingpositivepsychological,masteringcommunicationartsandshowingyourpersonalitycharm.Inthatway,youcanhaveawonderfullife!”
Duringwholesections,thisbooktellsushumanshouldliveinalargegroup,sincepeoplecan’tsolveallproblemsbytheirown.Forthatmatter,humanbeingsshouldlearnaseriesofmannerstodealwithanysituationwhichmighthappenwhereverandwhenever.Afterthat,DoctorLimakesapointthatpeopleneedtorealizehowtoresolvedisagreementsbetweenfriends,familiesorcolleagues.Therealwaysappearsthiskindofsituationinsociallife,soit’simportanttounderstandhowtosettleit.Finallyheteachesusthatcommunicationtechniquesnotonlyreflectinnormaltalkbutalsowithinbodylanguages.
Ineachpartofthebook,theauthortakesalargenumberofexamplesindailylifetoconfirmhispoints.Theseexamplesindailylifeareeasytounderstandandaccept.
Afterreadingthebook,Ifindmanyshortagesofmycommunicationskills.IusedtolackofpatiencewhenItalktoothers,evengotmadatthem.Thiswasimpoliteandmightdestroyrelationshipsbetweenmyfriendsandme.ThereforeIwouldtrymybesttoimprovemyselfandbewelcome.
Communicationiscommonandimportantinourdailylife.Allofuslivewithothersinthesocietyandnoonecanlivecutofffromit.Everyday,wemusttalktootherstogiveandgetinformation,buthowcanwecommunicatewithothersSomepeopleclaimthattheydon’tknowwhattosayandhowtospeaktoothers,strangersespecially.Ithinkfirstyoushouldfindatopicthatbothofyouareinterestedin.Then,payattentiontoyourmanners,speed,pitch,expressionsandyourbodylanguage.Youshouldmakeothersfeelcomfortable,sothattheyarewillingtotalktoyou.Lastbutnottheleast,beingagoodlistener.Listeningtoothersshowsyourrespecttothem.Onlywhentheyheard,theywanttotalk.Sodoyou.Beforeyoutalk,listeningtoothersfirst.
Once,Italkedtotheforeignpeople,hewasstaringatmeallthetime,whichmademefeelnotcomfortable,soIchosetoavoidhiseyesandkeptalittledistancefromhim.WhenItalkedaboutthisproblemtomyforeignteacher,shetoldmethatitwasnaturalforthemtolookatyouduringcommunication,whichmeantrespect.WhileinChina,peopledotheoppositething.Theytrytoavoideye-contact,becauseitisnoteasedtolookateachother.Thedifferentculturesometimescreatesdistance.TheforeignersalwaysfeelstrangewhentheylookatChinesepeople’seyesandeverytimewhentheywanttocomeclosertohearmoreclearly,Chinesepeoplewillwalkaway.Sothemorewelearnabouttheculture,themoreweknowabouttheworld.
Communicationistheactivityofconveyinginformationthroughtheexchangeofthought,messages,orinformation.Therearemanycommunicatingmethods,suchasspeech,visuals,signals,writingorbodylanguages.
Itplaysanimportantroleinsociallivesofhumanbeings,whichsomepeopleconsiderthatit’sthebasicofhumanexistence.
Ontheonehand,it’sthecommunicationthatspreadsinformation,makingusknowthenewsalthoughit’sfarfromus.Bycommunicatingwithothers,peoplesendandgetinformationthathelpsusknowaboutoursurroundings.Weallknowthatinformationisextremelyimportantinourlives.Ontheotherhand,communicationbuildspersonalrelationship,whichconnectsdifferentpeopletogether.Weliveinthesamesocietywhichmakespersonalrelationshipessentialinlives.Onlywithcommunicationcanwebuildandkeepgoodpersonalrelationshipswithothers.Inaddition,communicationcaneliminatemisunderstandingsandpromoteemotions.Whenwehavemisunderstandingswithothers,timelycommunicatingistheonlyeffectivewaytosolveit.
Inshort,communicationisessentialtoallpeoplethateveryoneshouldrealizethat.Therefore,weshouldlearnhowtocommunicatewithothereffectively.
Clearlyifwearetoparticipateinthesocietyinwhichwelivewemustcommunicatewithotherpeople.
Agreatdealofcommunicatingisperformedonaperson-to-personbasisbythesimplemeansofspeech.
Ifwetravelinbuses,buythingsinshops,oreatinrestaurants,wearelikelytohaveconversationswherewegiveinformationoropinions,receivenewsorcomment,andverylikelyhaveourviewschallengedbyothermembersofsociety.
Face-to-facecontactisbynomeanstheonlyformofcommunicationandduringthelasttwohundredyearstheartofmasscommunicationhasbecomeoneofthedominatingfactorsofcontemporarysociety.
Firstly,inventivenesshasledtoadvancesinprinting,telecommunications,photography,radioandtelevision.
Secondly,speedhasrevolutionizedthetransmissionandreceptionofcommunicationssothatlocalnewsoftentakesabackseattonationalnews,whichitselfisoftenalmosteclipsedbyinternationalnews.
Nolongeristhepossessionofinformationconfinedtoaprivilegedminority.
Inthelastcenturythewealthymanwithhisownlibrarywasindeedfortunate,buttodaytherearepubliclibraries.
Fortyyearsagopeopleusedtoflocktothecinema,butnowfarmorepeoplesitathomeandturnontheTVtowatchaprogramthatisbeingchanneledintomillionsofhomes.
Communicationisnolongermerelyconcernedwiththetransmissionofinformation.
Themoderncommunicationindustryinfluencesthewaypeopleliveinsocietyandbroadenstheirhorizonsbyallowingaccesstoinformation,educationandentertainment.
Theprinting,broadcastingandadvertisingindustriesareallinvolvedwithinforming,educatingandentertaining.
Althoughagreatdealofthematerialcommunicatedbythemassmediaisveryvaluabletotheindividualandtothesocietyofwhichheisapart,thevastmodernnetworkofcommunicationsisopentoabuse.
However,themassmediaarewithusforbetter,forworse,andthereisnoturningback.
英语交流英语作文（3）
Recently,IhavebeenreadingabooknamedCommunicationArts.Inthisbook,theauthorDoctorLiintroducesmanymethodstocommunicatewithotherssuccessfullyandtellsreaderswhyeveryoneshouldbeapoliteperson.Myfavoritesentenceinthisbookis“Everyonehaspotential,andeveryonecandetermineyourownfuturebydevelopingpositivepsychological,masteringcommunicationartsandshowingyourpersonalitycharm.Inthatway,youcanhaveawonderfullife!”Duringwholesections,thisbooktellsushumanshouldliveinalargegroup,sincepeoplecan’tsolveallproblemsbytheirown.Forthatmatter,humanbeingsshouldlearnaseriesofmannerstodealwithanysituationwhichmighthappenwhereverandwhenever.Afterthat,DoctorLimakesapointthatpeopleneedtorealizehowtoresolvedisagreementsbetweenfriends,familiesorcolleagues.Therealwaysappearsthiskindofsituationinsociallife,soit’simportanttounderstandhowtosettleit.Finallyheteachesusthatcommunicationtechniquesnotonlyreflectinnormaltalkbutalsowithinbodylanguages.
最近，我一直在读一本叫做沟通艺术的书。在这本书中，作者李博士介绍很多与他人成功交流的方法并告诉读者为什么每个人都应该做有礼貌的人。在这本书中我最喜欢的一句话是“每个人都是有潜能的，通过培养积极的心理，掌握交流艺术，展示自己的个人魅力每个人都可以决定自己的未来。这样，你就可以有拥有美好的生活！
在整个章节中，这本书告诉我们因为人们不能自己解决所有的问题，所以他们是需要群居的。对于这个问题，人类应该学会不管在何时何地处理任何情况的方式。一系列的方式去应对任何可能发生的情况，无论何时何地。在这之后，李博士指出，人们需要知道如何解决朋友、家人和同事之间的分歧。总会出现这种情况，在社会生活中总会出现这样的情况，所以了解如何解决它是重要的是要。最后他告诉我们，交流技术不仅反映在正常的交谈中反映，而且也在身体语言中体现了。
这本书的每一部分，作者都采用了日常生活中的大量实例来证实了他的观点。这些例子在日常生活中是很容易理解和接受的。
看了这本书之后，我发现了我的沟通技巧中很多不足的地方。在我和别人说话的时候，我常常缺乏耐心，甚至很恼火。这是不礼貌的，可还能会破坏我朋友和我之间的关系。因此我将尽我最大的努力来提高自己，使自己受欢迎。
英语交流英语作文（4）
CommunicationiscommonandimportantinourdailyAllofuslivewithothersinthesocietyandnoonecanlivecutofffromEveryday,wemusttalktootherstogiveandgetinformation,buthowcanwecommunicatewithothersSomepeopleclaimthattheydon’tknowwhattosayandhowtospeaktoothers,strangersIthinkfirstyoushouldfindatopicthatbothofyouareinterestedThen,payattentiontoyourmanners,speed,pitch,expressionsandyourbodyYoushouldmakeothersfeelcomfortable,sothattheyarewillingtotalktoLastbutnottheleast,beingagoodListeningtoothersshowsyourrespecttoOnlywhentheyheard,theywanttoSodoBeforeyoutalk,listeningtoothers
英语交流英语作文（5）
Communicationistheactivityofconveyinginformationthroughtheexchangeofthought,messages,orTherearemanycommunicatingmethods,suchasspeech,visuals,signals,writingorbody
Itplaysanimportantroleinsociallivesofhumanbeings,whichsomepeopleconsiderthatit’sthebasicofhuman
Ontheonehand,it’sthecommunicationthatspreadsinformation,makingusknowthenewsalthoughit’sfarfromBycommunicatingwithothers,peoplesendandgetinformationthathelpsusknowaboutourWeallknowthatinformationisextremelyimportantinourOntheotherhand,communicationbuildspersonalrelationship,whichconnectsdifferentpeopleWeliveinthesamesocietywhichmakespersonalrelationshipessentialinOnlywithcommunicationcanwebuildandkeepgoodpersonalrelationshipswithInaddition,communicationcaneliminatemisunderstandingsandpromoteWhenwehavemisunderstandingswithothers,timelycommunicatingistheonlyeffectivewaytosolve
Inshort,communicationisessentialtoallpeoplethateveryoneshouldrealizeTherefore,weshouldlearnhowtocommunicatewithother
英语交流英语作文（6）
Inthelastcentury,thegovernmentcarriedoutthepolicyoffamilyplanningtocontroltheincreasingSomostfamilieshaveonlyonechild,butrecently,anewpolicyhasbeenannouncedandpeoplecanhavethesecondItsoundslikethegoodnewsforthefamily,astheonlychildcanhaveasiblingtoWhileforsomeparents,theyseemtobenotthequalifiedAboycomplainedthathisparents’secondchildwasthesmartphone,becausetheyloweddowntheirheadsalltheManyparentsdidnotrealizethelackofcommunicationwiththeirIftheywantanotherchild,they’dbetterlearntocommunicatetheirkids
英语交流英语作文（7）
Recently,ithasbeenreportedthataboyarguedwithhisfatherandthenhelefthomeandthepolicedfoundhim,takinghimhomeafterhalfaItsoundssoridiculousfortheboytoleavehomeforsuchalongtime,butthinkingfurther,thelackofcommunicationbetweenthefatherandthesonmakesthisTherealwayssomepeoplewonderwhyweneedtogethighereducation,becausewemaynotearnmoneyasmuchastheInmyopinion,thepurposeofeducationisnotforthemoney,butforthebetterpersonwewillIfthefatherknowshowtocommunicatewithhissonandhissonisconsiderate,thenthingswouldn’tbecomesoWeneedreceiveeducationandbecomethewiseperson,sowecancommunicatebetterandcreateaharmonious
英语交流英语作文（8）
YoushouldstartyouressaywithabriefaccountoftheimpactoftheInternetonthewaypeoplecommunicateandthenexplainwhetherelectroniccommunicationcanreplaceface-to-facecontact.Youshouldwriteatleast120wordsbutnomorethan180words.
“DearAndy-HowareyouYourmotherandIarefine.Webothmissyouandhopeyouaredoingwell.Welookforwardtoseeingyouagainthenexttimeyourcomputercrashesandyoucomedownstairsforsomethingtoeat,Love,MomandDad.”
范文:Themoderntechnologyhasgreatlyalteredthemodeof
communicationamongpeople.WiththehelpoftheInternet,peoplecaneasilycontacteachotheranytimeanywhere.However,thesideeffectisthatmanypeoplehavebecomeover-dependentontheInternetandneglectedface-to-facecommunication.
Toconclude,theInternetenablesmoreeffectivecommunicationinsomesituations,butover-dependenceonitactuallypullspeopleapart.